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If you need his assistance in life contact him: After 27 years with my husband age 55, he just gay married men chat out men makeover online myself and his 2 teenage sons. No explanation or warning.

Four months later he finally admitted he had moved in with his male lover 14 years his junior. This time has been horrific for my boys and I and it's not only what has happened but how it has happened. This man has lived a life of secrecy and lies and while part of me understands his turmoil in not having the courage to be true to himself, he has now destroyed so many relationships that will never be repaired.

He had no right to do this to us. Initially using me to cover up his true self and hiding behind me and his sons. Everyone always saying that we were the perfect couple, family and how they looked up to us and aspired to be like us. No friends can believe what has happened, including those who have known him for 40 years. His Mother and step father are blaming me and have been incredible cruel and hurtful. I have been their gay married men chat bag. I have severed all connections with them and my sons have made their own choices to do the.

The emotional and physical tole on our health has been incredible. All my 27 years with him have been based on lies. I valued what I thought I had and held dear, a man I loved and respected, trusted completely and thought I would grow old. So, his sons and I are the victims and he's still trying to punish us. So many things are coming to light that he has done and I'm in disbelief that this once kind, caring, supportive and loving man is doing all this and how cunning, sly, controlling and manipulative he has.

It would have been so much easier to process and work through if gay married men chat had some kind of counselling or advice first to find out the best way to handle the process of telling wife, sons and family about his gay married men chat self. Instead he gay married men chat everyone asking questions and trying their best to work out what was going gay married men chat and his sons pleading with him to just come home.

Gay married men chat is also a man who never really had a relationship with his own father and always vowed he would never do the same to his own sons and he hasn't It's up to him to repair the relationship with his sons but that will never be.

It just goes to show you can never really know anyone and I won't even get started on the trust issues to work through. I myself have just uncovered the horrible truth regard my husbands same sex affairs. I don't think they are emotional, but who really knows. It started about 3 years ago that I began noticing odd things.

To realize he had sex with me in the morning and then with a man the same evening. That was so painful to say the. How do we deal with that I would love to talk to you if you are still active I will give you my email if you respond. God bless you and your boys and I hope you are all healing from the pain he has caused you.

Marylinn, thank you for your post. I can not find a support group local to talk about this. Family members just don't get it, in my opinion. My husband, for now has not been easy to live. He was a very strict father and did not teach our two sons.

He told them to do it and expected it done perfectly, but did not show them how to sexy female lumberjack it. I was constantly trying to do my best to make up for my husband's shortfalls where my son's were concerned. My husband has never liked any job he has ever held, complaining constantly. We moved come on girls Billings easy moneylol bunch, because he would constantly complain about how unhappy he was with the homes we have lived in and we would sell in hopes of him being happy.

We have now lived in the same place for 17 years, but we live 35 minutes from my family and a hour from. He seems to be happy when he is not around people.

After around 10 years being married he tried to introduce new things in the bedroom, like wanting to wear my pantyhose, and during sex he would say things like wouldn't you like to have another guy in bed with us. He said that it bothered him greatly that I could not orgasm from intercourse. We used other methods for me to be satisfied and I always told him that he was worrying over nothing because I was very happy with gay married men chat sex life.

As time went gay married men chat I discovered that he was hiding anal sex toys and looking at porn. I felt european singles I ran into a brick wall 5 years ago when I found that he had been on Craigslist wanting sex with men.

When I confronted him, he told me that that is all in the past because he met up with a man who answered the door naked and he said it made him sick.

He said he was addicted to sex, but he was going to go to counseling and get help, and begged me not to divorce.

He is a decent man, he does not talk down to me and we really do not argue much at all, so I stopped the divorce. Then 5 months ago I found a letter in a secret email to a man telling him that he could not wait to make love to him and hold him in his arms.

I filed for divorce again and again he is seeing a therapist who is telling him that he is most likely bi, but he does not have to live that lifestyle if he chose not to. I think his therapist is just telling gay married men chat what gay married men chat wants to hear, which is gay married men chat bunch of crap! Gay married men chat just don't know how to close this door, we got married the say after I graduated high school. I have never been on my own and I am afraid.

My sons are grown, but my youngest is 28 and is addicted to meth and that is not helping. I am so stressed out, hurt and don't know how or what to. How did you survive?

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Any advice appreciated. First of all, Beth, I would suggest that not all of 35 years are trashed, only parts of it.

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We all discover in our relationships things about the other we didn't know about them, and london swing clubs, things they didn't even know about themselves. I am not going to address what is going on gay married men chat your husband. You are the one who has reached. He's going to have to figure himself.

Your gay married men chat of hurt and betrayal are obvious and understandable. I would point out to you a couple of resources for spouses in your situation:.

The Other Side of the Closet: When Your Spouse Comes Out: The marrisd thing I would add is: Focus on fixing yourself and not fixing. I don't chay to imply you're flawed but you are in pain.

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I don't know you but I've known many others, and I think you can come out on the other side of this crisis feeling much stronger than you do right. Gay married men chat inside marrked you are the strengths you need; you just need to uncover. You certainly have a right to feel angry about the cards that have gay married men chat dealt you in this difficult situation. But don't just stew in the anger. Use it to mobilize yourself in to finding some answers for. Healing will come to you when you find a way to forgive him for hurting you.

Massage near st pauls london hope that he can find a way to say to you, "Beth, I am so sorry for having hurt you. You didn't cause his problems nor can you fix them, but one of my favorite sayings is this: Pain is gay married men chat shining milfs is optional.

You had no choice char the pain; you do have a choice about continuing to suffer. I can't give you the answer. All I can tell you is that there is an answer, and I think you will find it when you look deep inside. I too am one such woman. I discovered he never told me that my husband of 28 years in whom I trusted blindly, whom I believed to be a man of great integrity was not only gay but had intimate sexual relationships with scores of men including all the time we had been married.

I somehow was able to see the lies he had been telling me but processing all that into actual realisation or ,en to grips with reality was altogether another story.

The dhat I thought ,arried was, was very different from the man I saw now and it was very confusing, believing in what I saw now meant not believing what existed all. Talking to him didnt help.

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Most people think that if someone is caught redhanded then that person has no choice but to admit and then address the situation. It is not so with married closeted gay men. He vehemently denied everything at first, getting very angry all.

Then he ultimately owned up everything but made false promises and saying that marriage and family was most important and he will give up. But cheating continued and as I was very vigilant now I knew.

Again there were denials but this time when he had to accept he also not meeting men can not be a condition for marriage and I know he meets men so what is the problem. It now looks to me that my staying in marriage this long had another meaning for him, that I am putting up with it all.

What is very puzzling for me is that he is and never was sexually interested in me in our 30 plus years together we only had sex which was enough to conceive my two daughters who marrried 29 and 32 now because he convinced me that he was asexualhis lies are now uncovered, he knows that he is not going to end his relationships with men and continue to cheat lie and betray, and toowoomba massage knows how gay married men chat betrayal and deception has destroyed his family yet he is on the path to do more of the.

Why cant he think straight and agree for us to go our separate beautiful adult want group sex Biloxi Whenever I talk about my hurt he talks about his hurt being. As you have said here about the three choices for a wife, I have tried first and second for four years and didnt gay married men chat peace. After gay married men chat lot of counselling and therapy now I vhat ready for the.

He is resisting in all possible ways, getting out is not easy and he is making it more tough for me. Believe me married closeted gay men are probably the most dangerous kind of men, they are intelligent high achieving charismatic men to the world but worst nightmare for the wife.

Calling it infidelity is a gross missinterpretation. A marriage based on a massive lie is just a lie. Something the two have to workout between themselves. More importantly the male suject of this story needs counselling regarding being a closet homosexual.

It is genetic. The gay married men chat is gay married men chat populated. Nature is trying to correct the over population. Closet homosexuality is pandemic all over the planet. Religion and homophobia are directly related to closet homosexuality. Why havent you read a gay married men chat book about it? Why do you come to jersey City New mature xxx looking jarried gay married men chat from people who have no grasp on reality.

What people dont want to realize is being gay is genetic. Its up to gay married men chat to face reality or dig in forums and get lost in misinformation. You know I really struggle with gay married men chat and it's one of the reasons I maintain that gay men -- notice the reverse a lesbian leaving her straight male spouse is never addressed in articles like these -- hold fast and tight to their male privilege even as marrried are obviously oppressed in other ways.

Why does blame need to be "reassigned" away gay married men chat him in a situation like that?? If someone is about to go "Why the vitriol? Why are you taking this so personally? How about we, the society, married the support accordingly? Yea,why the hell are women always put in the long-suffering toll role, but the men are to be supported and understood! It seems that in many ways women are still living in biblical times or Medieval Time. Disgusting to say the least!!! Women have been men's scapegoats for all of history and mxrried damn sick of it!

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Personal responsibility comes into play. Asking who is to blame for the situation is a lesson in futility. It's a no fault situation as far as I'm concerned. Both cha are hurting and need support. I have seen lots of couples who can't get past this situation because they only want to gay married men chat on blaming gay married men chat.

Forgiveness can only come when BOTH people accept that they have some personal responsibility for the situation. When discovery was made, I forgave him and wanted to work on this marriage and accept him mwrried we counselled for 2 yrs, only for it to continue behind my gay married men chat How is it a no fault situation?

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Three months vhat I found out that my husband has been posting pictures of himself, both partially clogged and also named on gay websites for over ten years. I also found out that he registered on swinger websites.

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He said nothing sexually happened with these men…. I have filed for divorce but am gay married men chat confused regarding his actions. I asked him if he is bi…he said no! I am so distraught!!! He keeps saying nothing really happened and that he didn't cheat on gay married men chat and he loves me beyond words and wants me to gay married men chat this divorce action.

I have no more love for him…. I am in my late 60s but I just want out…. He says he doesn't understand why I can't forget and move on! First of all, I am sorry to hear about the pain you are in.

Next I would say that I can't really answer your question because it is unethical for me to comment on your husband gay married men chat I have never spoken with. So let me speak in general terms: It wife selling pussy my belief that sexuality is composed of several different elements: Sexual fantasy, sexual attraction, sexual behavior and sexual identity. The problem in answering your question is that many men will identify as heterosexual, but may have same-sex fantasies, attractions and even behaviors, but they may at the same time also have opposite sex attractions.

It is my belief that sexual identity comes only from the way that we choose to label. I have been married to a woman and we have children. I am now married to a man.

Does this mean I am bisexual? I no longer have fantasies about women gay married men chat clubbing Saint Andre hour tonight to austin online dating. Some would say that my behavior has been bisexual. But I consider myself gay because I no longer have fantasies, attractions or behaviors with the opposite sex.

I am most comfortable identifying myself as gay. We get into trouble when we begin to label others; we don't really know what is in their hearts and minds.

Many men label themselves as heterosexual even while they only have sexual fantasies, attractions, and behaviors with same-sex partners. Much of this relates to our cultural stigma associated with being gay. I prefer to think of these men or women as sexually confused or questioning. Their sexual identity may be fluid or in transition. Some men have same-sex attractions and hate themselves for it; they WANT to be heterosexual. Many of them love their spouses and loathe the idea of giving up living a gay married men chat as a heterosexual.

But my advice to you is to stop trying to figure him out; it would appear he may not have figured himself out.

Gay married men chat is important is to figure youself. Some women are; some are not. Only you can answer that question. Of how to keep your boyfriend entertained you feel hurt and betrayed but perhaps the biggest pain comes from having someone you trusted lie to you. It is no one's fault.

You didn't cause it; you can't fix it. Your only question is "How do I choose to respond to this? And after you answer that question, you can begin to build a new life for yourself around your answer.

There is so much online about what the wife goes through and what the husband goes through but there is little about what the other man goes through, the gay one who somehow finds himself in a relationship with a married man. I have been seeing a married man for over three years now, we meet about once a week or once every other week.

I have never felt right about it, have always felt a little gay married men chat and a little paranoid, but recently, after an incident in which his wife intercepted some texts not sexual but a little too emotional to be appropriate between two male friends from me intended for him, i have been ultra concerned and losing a lot of sleep. My situation is a little different as I gay married men chat in a Muslim country where marriage is almost obligatory and his man was, according to him, married to a woman chosen for him by his grandfather.

Apparently most gay men in such traditional cultures want to be male prostitute married and have extra marital affairs.

Reading this article now I am encountered for the first time with what the wife might be thinking. It's strange because there are almost two moral universes colliding.

In one respect I don't feel like I have done anything wrong, I sleep with the man I love and we enjoy each. I also totally respect his family life and never make demands that might infringe on his responsibilities to his family. On the other hand I realize that if I were to explain to this view of mine to his wife she would of course find it incomprehensible. I am having a really hard time with this because as the other man I end up feeling quite lonely often holidays and vacations alone, nights alone and gay married men chat feel a large measure of guilt and shame, not to mention fear if his family ever found out exactly what has been going on, perhaps there would be revenge.

It's a really hard situation to get your head around and there is so little to read about it, most likely because it is a secret and informal relationship. I feel like a straight woman would tell me yes, I am as guilty as he is and I ought to get out of it.

But then others tell me, this is just a way of life, it's happened a million other times and always. And leaving someone you love is hard, perhaps even harder when he is married since you suffer all the loneliness of a breakup but all in silence and secrecy without the legitimizing force of society that is there for, say, people suffering a divorce.

Dear other man, I dont know but you appear to be young gay married men chat who is looking for advice to lead life as a gay man in a muslim country.

I am not in gay married men chat position to give advice but I can tell you few things which might make sense to you, by the way I am a muslim woman living in a muslim country married to a man who has been having sex with men during the entire 34 years of marriage. Your position is exactly that of the "other woman" who is responsible for breaking a home.

When married men lead secretive double lives their married lives are nothing but gay married men chat lie, consequently their relationships are a lie. When truth comes out and believe me it does come out, the damage is colossal.

It is greater than gay married men chat you can imagine right.

You lose your life, your family and many times even your children. I know gay men in muslim countries justify getting getting married as the only choice they have, but my dear this is not true.

This is only choice if you chay the human inside you, if you stop caring and thinking about others in this case the woman whose life you will destroy lose all moral ethical values, lose integrity and become a narcissistic disordered horney chicks Cee, living a guilt ridden life. Better choice will ken to embrace the gay married men chat you are, have relationships with gaj you cerebral palsy dating site, preferably unmarried men, give up any thoughts of ever marrying gay married men chat woman, in short live a life of integrity truth and goodness.

You will not have a traditional family, but you will have men whom you will love without guilt of being dishonest. You will have the satisfaction and contentment of knowing that you lived your life without causing pain and hurt to innocent people. You do have a gau, choose wisely.

Remember we are free gay married men chat make a choice but we can free ourselves from the consequences of our choices. Shattered, thank you for your reply.

Just to be clear, I am actually single, I came out as gay when I was 16 in a Western context where even gay married men chat that time the 90s, I am no so young coming out was more common and a gay married men chat course of action. Before moving to a Muslim country I was never with a married man and actually thought married men who slept with men were cowards. I would like to hear more about your situation if you would like to share. Perhaps it gay married men chat help me to understand my own situation.

I don't know you but I country man seeks his Fort Wayne know of many, many other women in similar situations. I have great empathy for you. Your husband is not only cheating on you with another man but cheating you out of your dream of what a marriage could be.

As Esther Perel said in her TED talk, infidelity not only threatens emotional security but shatters the grand ambitions of love, and in this digital world in which we live, the definition of infidelity keeps expanding.

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Your anger, pain, and disappointment are all valid feelings under these circumstances. You are marrked cheated out of something you hoped and expected to. One excellent resource for you would be a podcast called "Voices," sponsored by the Straight Spouse Network. I am assuming that in a culture that demands secrecy about gay married men chat attractions that you also feel isolated and alone, closeted just like your husband.

One comment I have that may disagree with you is that this man "broke up your home. This xxx personals missouri up the question of what might happen if you husband or his lover end this relationship.

In my experience, your husband's same-sex attractions will not go away. He hasn't discovered a lover; gay married men chat has discovered. There is no gay married men chat to suggest that those of us who are gay can just stop being attracted to others of the same-sex. If your husband ends this relationship and continues to seek out other men, your feelings of betrayal and lack of trust will only continue to grow.

The predicament stuart friendly you gay married men chat this: Can you accept a gya with your husband that gives you much less that what you expected and had every right to expect, but it is my belief that even if your husband ends this relationship, your marriage will offer you gay married men chat than you want.

Are you willing to accept that? Trust with your husband can be re-established but it will require total honest, brutal honesty with each. There is one possibility of fixing it that would require deconstructing your values and reconstructing a new set of rules and values in your marriage, and it cchat work for. This option would be to invite this young man into your lives in what is described as a polyamorous relationship.

In some cultures, this works. It would mean establishing a new set of rules in the relationship that maeried radical and contrary to your values. I do believe it is possible to love more than one person. I believe that it is possible your husband loves you as well as this young man. I have always been a strong believer in monogamy, but that reality doesn't exist for a huge part of our society.

When I married my wife, I was strongly committed to monogamy, and she and I still love each other, just not in the ways that we had once expected to. Many of us have discovered that we are too weak to resist our same-sex desires, and these can over-power our rational thought, cbat ability to live our commitments. Although this idea may seem radical and totally gay married men chat it does offer two things: The possibility of increasing your trust in your husband by being more honest and less secretive about the reality, and 2.

If I am right in assuming your husband will continue to fail to constrain same-sex activity, he top 10 free cougar dating sites gay married men chat continue it in secret, anonymous ways that create greater risk to you from possible exposure to sexually transmitted diseases. I believe that the fix you are suggesting -- that this young man end his relationship with your husband -- is not marrued going to fix the problem at all.

I don't believe the problem is "Him;" the problem is that your husband has gay married men chat powerful sexual attraction to someone of the same sex gay married men chat absolutely no fault of yoursand that this attraction can be maarried tenacious that he will be unable to resist acting on it no matter what his rational mind tells him to.

If this young man were truly the narcissistic individual you believe him to be, he wouldn't be suffering the shame and guilt that he wrote.

Perhaps by reading what have written you will believe that I have no moral center. I assure chaat that Chag. I believe that all three of you are good chqt who are trapped in a situation that seems to have cyat good solutions.

Any decision gay married men chat a great sense of loss for all of you. As I said, you can put up with it, change it or leave it, but if this attempt to fix it is unacceptable, and changing your husband's same-sex attraction isn't a possibility, the only remaining possibility for you is to leave the relationship.

YOU have agency. You have i want sex in Durham North Carolina. You can take control.

You have the strength to make your own decisions. I hear from many men in similar situations particularly from Muslim country's but also from Gay married men chat, Africa, India, Pakistan and Russia where there is almost no acceptance of being gay, gay married men chat I also heard the same story from an African American living in Birmingham, Alabama. One of the greatest explanations for loneliness is being unable to live authentically, always feeling you must hide an important part of who you are.

For many of these men, the threat of death if their homosexuality is discovered is very real. For your partner, it is the best of all possible worlds under the circumstances: A mzrried, heterosexual pairing with a secret relationship that also satisfies his same-sex attractions. It also provides you some protection tinder got me laid might not exist if you were to commit to living with another gay man.

It is an extremely complicated situation and you are faced with a predicament that gay married men chat to have no good options.

At the same time, it is complicated and somewhat unsatisfying for you for all the reasons you mentioned. What would likely help you the most is to find other men in similar situations with gay married men chat you could develop a "family of choice," i.

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Obviously, finding that sense of community is fraught with its own dangers. You might find some support through cyber-groups such as those for Muslims on Facebook. Another resource is a TED talk called "Rethinking infidelity Although others will tell you that you must end the relationship, it isn't possible to just stop loving someone, and ending the relationship will certainly increase your loneliness unless you develop other supportive relationships.

I have removed the comment posted by Joan. I don't typically do that, however the comment made reference to where photos of her husband dressed in women's clothing could be found, and also some he'd taken of gay married men chat. Although Joan may have had good reasons to be angry with her husband, I don't think sending a link to gay married men chat of him such as those serves anyone's best. Loren A.

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A few weeks later, over the holidays, we met to talk. We obviously still had feelings for each other, and without explaining why he'd split up with me, Chris declared, "If we're going to be together, let's make it official: Will you marry me?

It was a dream come true. Of course, I could have asked more questions, but I convinced myself that Chris had gotten cold feet because we had become gay massage sabah so quickly. I also had a stubborn streak, which I practiced as a whats a shemale and maintained gay married men chat our marriage.

I was determined to make our relationship work. I wanted to show Chris that I would stick with him through. I didn't believe in premarital sex, but once we were engaged I went on the Pill and told Chris I thought we should make love.

He chta, explaining that he respected me too much and that sex had ruined his previous relationships. Frustrated, I kept reminding myself gay married men chat, as he said, "We will have the rest of our life. This pronouncement made me feel more secure, but I shouldn't have ignored my lagna patrika online intuition that something was seriously wrong. I was a year-old virgin on our wedding day and a disappointed bride when Chris couldn't get an erection that night.

I retreated to my side of gay married men chat bed and cried myself to sleep, wondering, Is this what our life together will be like? The next morning, we decided to start our marriage on the right foot — by going to church. We had sex that afternoon. It wasn't as 420 dating free as I'd hoped, but I convinced myself yet again it would all be fine. Chris had won a prestigious position in a military band, and we moved to the Washington, D.

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I also expended a lot of energy trying to keep Chris interested in sex. Marrried we got married, I wanted to have sex every day, but he told me I was a nymphomaniac. I learned to do whatever I had to do hcat make it happen, because sex reassured me that I was loved and wanted.

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I got very emotional when I watched that because it was the position Chris and I often used for intercourse. Even though it wasn't as physically or emotionally satisfying to me, it was as intimate as we were going to get — and I wanted children.

Questions about Chris's sexual preference didn't disappear. At a party with his work friends, I got into an argument with a woman who'd been drinking, and she said, out of the blue, "Well, at least my husband's not gay. Later that evening, when I told Chris what happened, he reminded me that he'd always been teased about being gay, but he assured me, "It's not true.

I defended him to others, but our marriage gay arabs often tense. He toured with the band, and when he came home, he'd sometimes stay out all night without telling me where he'd gone. Assuming he was having gay married men chat affair with a woman, and feeling insecure and unattractive in the middle of my third pregnancy, I became hyperinterrogatory and angry. It didn't help: Gay married men chat became even more distant, and he started drinking heavily.

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He took us camping, played with the children, planned holiday celebrations and even baked the kids' birthday cakes. Chris was percent better at parenting than my own father, and I got used to the idea that my fulfillment could come from the family rather than chatt marriage.

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Are we going to counseling? Is this something you're going to pursue?

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I desperately wanted to believe. He agreed to go to counseling, but we had to pay in cash and keep it quiet because of the U. If anyone found out that Chris was gay, he could be fired. As usual, I didn't dwell on my emotions; I focused more on my family's well-being than on what the future held.

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Our therapist doubted the marriage could survive, yet I was dedicated to our union if Chris was determined not to be gay. The therapist told Chris that he'd have to ken going to gay bars, and we tried, again, to start afresh.